Many times, we tend to focus on the father son relationship and usually, the ills of a man are blamed on the relationship with his estranged father. But I think the mother son relationship is also critical and understated. So I’ve decided to express my thoughts on it; more specifically, the effect that a controlling, … Continue reading The emotionally dominated son part 1: Achieving a state of toxic peace
I speak my mind passionately. I’m not a mansplaining misogynist. Get over it!!
Its all sunshine until.... So you’re in your office on a bright Monday morning, enthused, ready and chomping at the bit to take on the week. You’ve been working through this problem in your mind over the weekend that the team is still to solve since last week and you’re an idea machine! Monday morning … Continue reading I speak my mind passionately. I’m not a mansplaining misogynist. Get over it!!
Can men find some way to thrive against the anti-male agenda?
How did we come to this? Throughout history, there existed great men who explored, achieved greatness, aimed for the skies seemingly without limitations to their imagination, who built great societies and civilizations. Yet in today’s world there are many men who seem so uncertain of their value; of what they can achieve. True there are … Continue reading Can men find some way to thrive against the anti-male agenda?
We are teaching males not to value themselves
An ideal world In an ideal world, men and women would live in perfect harmony with mutual respect, love and trust. We would encourage and inspire each other to reach our maximum potential as human beings. We would provide a structure for future generations to thrive and build upon these values. Our differences would inspire … Continue reading We are teaching males not to value themselves
It’s toxic to use the term “toxic masculinity”
Defining toxic masculinity: Well it depends on who you talk to I’ve been hearing this term toxic masculinity for some time now. Its offensive to be perfectly blunt. But nonetheless I decided to find out what it means and who uses it. More importantly, why attach the word toxic to one gender rather than both. … Continue reading It’s toxic to use the term “toxic masculinity”
Breaking the sugar-coated, “nice-guy” ceiling. It’s a disease!
To nice or not too nice? That is the question I would like to pose to all the “nice-guys” out there. Let’s address the elephant in the room shall we? As a man, I feel that we’ve been taught from a young age to aspire to be that charming prince. The self-sacrificial hero that risks … Continue reading Breaking the sugar-coated, “nice-guy” ceiling. It’s a disease!
Never feel guilty about speaking on men’s issues and rights
I’d like to start off by making three statements. Firstly, it is not a man’s world. Secondly, the problems and disadvantages men face are very real and very significant. And finally, no matter how small your problem may seem, it is wrong to be bullied, intimidated or shamed into not expressing it to its full … Continue reading Never feel guilty about speaking on men’s issues and rights
Circles-n-Arrows: First post
Hi, at the moment, the site is under construction. But let me take the time to welcome you to our site and feel free to suggest any topics on men's issues that you feel strongly about and would like to explore. Its an exciting adventure and we cant wait to begin.
Circles-n-Arrows 